We clothe ourselves emotionally with what equates our social level, therefore these tendencies :
RULES FOR SOCIAL AND EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
... but if I encounter an event while ignoring my inner values, my response is disproportional and inadequate. I become emotionally irritated. I'm irritated because I'm failing to recognize, active, discover and explore my own nature. I can control and hide my true emotions and honesty. Yet I simply don't know my inner standard. So I control my behaviour at the expense of ignoring my deeper complex system. In the resulting drama and confusion, I could potentially explode!
But in an external world where static tolerance is the deep set credo, nobody cares anyway about my emotions. Everyone is tolerant or simply too busy with the rules to empathise.
